First 100K: October Update – I Lost My Card

October arrived like clockwork — steady, predictable, and somehow quietly satisfying. There was a rhythm to our weeks that almost felt like a private lullaby: nursery runs, workdays, a couple of extra hours of rest on the weekends, park strolls to look at dogs, and visits with friends and family. My partner and I weren’t … Read more

It’s Here: The Time For Heating To Be Turned On

There’s a certain point in October when the air changes. Not a date on the calendar, but a shift that arrives quietly through the toes. The light flattens, the sky turns that soft, indifferent grey, and the house takes on a kind of stillness that makes the decision inevitable: it’s here — the time for … Read more

Edge of Madness – Tracking Every Pound for a Week

There’s a certain thrill in thinking you can control life with a spreadsheet. Or in my case, a phone app that makes a very judgmental kaching every time you spend. Last week, with a sick little one at home, doctor appointments stacked like teetering Jenga blocks, and a looming six-month debate over whether to book … Read more